By now you have heard it so many times you know it is true. Silicon valley is the vortex drawing all web entrepreneurs and startups into that bright place where the best environment exists to nurture your fledgling company and become the next TwitFaceLinker. This fact is clear, it is the best place to get a web startup company funded.
Countless VCs, pundits, founder helpers, xfounder VCs and most anybody else involved in the Valley/SF startup scene will ask you “when are you moving out here? This is where it is happening.”
“Step right up, come one come all.” They want you, they need you, and they will own your butt.
Because what they don’t tell you is that you will have nothing else to occupy your attention and keep you from working 80 hours a week cranking code with your nose in a computer screen. Why, because there are no women to distract you from your tasks.
You are wanted in Silicon Valley to put to use making startups, where there is less life to divert your attention from your purpose of creating value.
Women, can’t live with them can’t live without them, can’t even find them.
So what if the people extolling the virtues of the Valley startup lifestyle and encouraging you to make the move, are already married. It’s a numbers game baby. Gotta have more pork to make the sausages for the porkfolio.
I know what you are thinking. The Valley has a higher percentage of wealthy men, on the mean, than men from any other major metropolitan area and therefore, that makes it a great place for single women. Sounds good to me, women will be drawn to you like asyyriaks to a wookiee child.
But a study shows an interesting thing happens when the ratio skews too much in favor of women. The amount of socioeconomic status a guy needs to get a girl increases way more than the math would predict. Specifically when the ratio is tilted in favor of women by 10%, low status men became not 1.1 times less likely to get a girl but 2.3 times less likely and high status men 1.3 times less likely.
So the good news is that if you are one of the few to get rich, you have a shot, but the bad news is that if you don’t, you have even less of a shot.
Check out some of the choice comments below, from the people living the life, on a Ycombinator News Discussion of the subject.
Companies and their ratio:
Median Age 27 years Gender Male 68% Female 32%
City of San Francisco:
Median Age 32 years Gender Male 62% Female 38%
“The Lower Peninsula is relatively devoid of Women.”
And my favorite
“Negative proof by counterexample. I met a girl in SF last month. Therefore, “there are no girls in San Francisco” is false. QED.”
The are discussing a post on the web site Why There are No Girls in San Francisco which contained the study information.
A singles map of the United States of America
But all this is not about you because you are kicking ass and going to the moon despite the odds.
You are “going to make it to the top where the air is fresh and clean.” to quote Tom Waits. So what if you miss a few nights on the couch eating Thai food with your lady watching Spiderman.
It’s not like you can’t control biological urges and yearning for companionship that have stirred in your blood since Australopithecus first spied his missus slurping termites off of her fishing stick.
Now that you succeeded to the point where you have the wife and kids and nice place (not FU money but not bad). You have another problem. Where are the great schools to send your kids?
At least they will have nice weather to come home to when they come back from Exeter or Phillips Andover Academy. Oh yeah, and since the odds aren’t against them, your sons might bring some lady friends home to meet their parents.
*My apologies to the female startup founder for gender generalizations, to whom this does not apply.
*Thanks to Andrew Chen for pointing out the Why There are No Girls in San Francisco blog, but I can’t seem to find his post linking to it.